At Fertility Centers of New England, we are committed to helping all individuals and couples create healthy families, regardless of marital status or sexual orientation. One of the most common questions we receive is: “What are the best reproductive options for lesbian couples?” Here is an overview of reciprocal IVF, a family-building option for lesbian couples.

What Is Reciprocal IVF?

Reciprocal IVF, also known as co-maternity IVF, is a fertility treatment that allows both partners in a lesbian couple to share the journey of pregnancy and parenthood. One partner provides the egg (genetic mother), which is fertilized with donor sperm and then transferred into the other partner’s uterus (gestational carrier). This allows both partners to have a biological connection to their child.

Why Choose Reciprocal IVF?

Lesbian couples choose reciprocal IVF for various reasons, including:

• Shared Experience: Both partners actively participate in the conception and pregnancy process.
• Genetic Connection: One partner provides the egg while the other carries the baby.
• Family Building for Multiple Children: Some couples take turns, with one partner carrying the first child and the other carrying the next.

How Common Is Reciprocal IVF?

The use of assisted reproductive technologies (ART), including reciprocal IVF, has significantly increased among lesbian couples over the years. A study published in Fertility and Sterility found that:

• Around 75% of lesbian couples who sought fertility treatment chose for one partner to both provide the egg and carry the pregnancy.
• 25% of couples planned to share roles, with each partner contributing eggs and carrying at different times.
• Among couples choosing reciprocal IVF, the live birth rate was an impressive 80%.

What Are the Treatment Options?

Lesbian couples have multiple pathways to parenthood, including:

• Intrauterine Insemination (IUI): A less invasive option using donor sperm.
• IVF: A highly effective method, including reciprocal IVF, for those who want shared biological involvement.

Start Your Journey with Reciprocal IVF

If you’re considering reciprocal IVF or other fertility treatments for lesbian couples, our team is here to guide you every step of the way. Contact us to schedule a consultation and explore your options for growing your family!